Race for the Cure

My fondest memory of Aviva’s mother, Hindy, is the weeks leading up to her nephew’s wedding. Hindy was really sick by then but all she wanted to do was talk about the wedding, the bride’s dress, the flowers, and every other detail. When her friends and family would come and visit, Hindy would inevitably turn the conversation to the wedding, what she was wearing, and how she was going to dance with the bride. Hindy’s determination and strength in such difficult times and her love of family still inspire me today.

Hindy Weinstock passed away in the summer of 2002 after a long battle with breast cancer. Aviva and I started dating at the beginning of that year and so I only knew Hindy for a few short months. Unfortunately, Hindy was extremely sick those last months. Still, I remember her passion for her family, her strength, and her wonderful smile, all traits I see in my wife everyday.

Too often I find myself guilty of being egotistical with my disease. I complain and think I have it so bad with being yellow, tired, and weak. But the truth of the matter is, there’s a cure for my disease and all I have to do is wait to get it. Not everyone is so lucky. Each year, over 200,000 people are diagnosed with breast cancer and they don’t know whether a mastectomy, intense chemo, or any other treatment will ultimately help them.

For this reason, Aviva and I joined the Race for the Cure, a 5K walk / run to benefit breast cancer and raise awareness. Tova, Aviva’s sister, started the team Hindy’s Helpers to honor their mother and support those that are suffering through similar circumstances. Of course, Aviva and I can’t actually partake in the race due to her beautiful belly and my lethargic liver, but that didn’t stop us from signing up to be on the team as “Sleep For the Cure” team members. If you would like to join Hindy’s Helpers or donate to anyone on the team please visit our team homepage. Thank you so much.